Do you feel like love has passed you by and you've missed your soulmate window? This is a difficult belief to live with, which can create deep feelings of loneliness and sadness about remaining single for the rest of your life.
Maybe you've been focused on your career, taking care of kids as a single parent, or caring for elderly parents. There are countless reasons a person can be too busy to find love.
Thankfully today, anything is possible when it comes to relationships and finding your soulmate. Age is no longer a roadblock to romance and people of all ages fall in love every day. It's amazing.
If you can master these eight skills, a man will see you as his soulmate:
1. Get clear on the type of mate you are seeking
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Give some thought to the personality characteristics and shared values that will be compatible with who you are. Shared values in a relationship allow you and your partner to have the same future goals, psychology states.
2. Take stock of your past relationships
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Think about the lessons you have learned about love. What do you want to enjoy in a new relationship and what do you want to avoid? This is a key step for attracting a healthy partnership.
3. Work to heal your heart
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Make sure your heart is healed, ready, and open to love and a new relationship. You can do this with traditional therapy, an energy healer, or on your own with meditation, books, and videos online. 2017 research tells us that therapy can be a big improvement in your mental health and self-esteem.
4. Build confidence and raise your vibration
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When you are at your best, and your frequency is elevated, you are more likely to attract your soulmate. According to the Society for Personality and Social Psychology, confidence is a very attractive trait.
5. Get out and meet new people
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It's important to meet a variety of prospects to help you zero in on the one right person for you. Make it easy for your soulmate to find you by dating and being out there and social.
Your best bet would be online dating. According to the Pew Research Center, 1 in 10 couples met online.
6. Ask for help
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Tell friends and family you are looking for love and allow people to fix you up. You never know who your divine connection to your soulmate might be.
Let the Universe provide options through the people you already know. Statistics tell us about 20% of couples meet through a friend.
7. Listen to messages from the spirit
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If you have a feeling that someone is not your soulmate, don't cling to them because you don't want to be alone. This makes you unavailable to the one you are meant to be with. Psychology tells us the biggest reason people stay in bad relationships is because of their fear of being alone.
Honor your intuition and the guidance you receive and be strong to stay open to the right one.
8. Know true love is your destiny
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Regardless of your life situation or age, there is no better time than right now to find the love you deserve. Find a way to believe that love is your destiny and it's only a matter of time before you find your soulmate.
Ronnie Ann Ryan is a love coach and past life reader for the past 20 years, who has shared her sound advice and practical magic for mindful dating, love, and life with thousands of successful single women. She is the author of 7 Ways Your Past Lives Affect Your Love Life Now.
